I don't doubt there is a problem which may or may not be made clear to those watching your videos. If Kioti tells you to engage the throttle slightly, as suggested by experienced members here who have watched your videos, then I would do what they suggest as well as what the manufacturer states in the owner's manual.
You say you have no diesel experience, and it seems that your rudimentary attempt to verify glow plug circuit and key switch would support that theory. Especially since the key switch being turned to glow would put a load on the alternator due to the amp draw of the plugs that are working - as mentioned already. So now you've ordered one glow plug to test the idea that you have one dead plug. Pull the plugs and note which cylinder they came out of. Test resistance against the new one's values. If you have a dead one replace it. If more then one, order another and replace it too. If you have two dead ones I would replace all three and keep the still functional one as a known good spare. Think about ANY engine that has unburned fuel in a cylinder. What's it going to do when the engine is started? Smoke?
It seems your frustration is clouding your better judgement and causing you to get stuck in an endless loop. You need to move from trying to justify your videos and go to fixing the problem by testing the plugs and moving on from there.
Videos are of good quality, (except for the tree felling one...

), but they're just bogging you down in diagnostic h#2l.
Move from problem to solution. Worst case, you're not on track with the glow plug being the problem- but from what I've seen and read so far I seriously doubt it. One other clue is you've owned the tractor for SIX years! You said yourself you should be able to discern when something is wrong, like in copious amounts of smoke that didn't used to be there on start-up.
Post back results, good luck.:thumbsup: