I have an older Kioti and the extendable 3PH arms are only for hooking up, they don't lock extended. When people say adjust 3PH arms they are likely referring to to adjustments where the lift links attach to the arms. The owner's manual doesn't appear to explain this, but I've attached a picture of what to look for. You can adjust the connection between the vertical link, circled in blue, and the 3PH arm circled in red. Depending on which holes you use it adjusts how high the arm raises. In the picture I attached there are holes in the vertical arm and the 3PH arm. If you post a picture of the back of your tractor we can help show you which holes to use. I have a more basic del Morino and agree the rear roller doesn't allow a high enough cut on its own, I have to extend my top link a lot, but it works fine that way.
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