You mentioned in your post that your wife might operate once and awhile, that is the main reason I went with the DK45 hst wanted the wife ,kids, 80 year old father to be able to jump on the tractor and be able to operate.Had a ford 3000 but didn't feel comfortable with anybody else doing close in work. When you let the clutch out on that tractor it was moving,unless you ran it alot like any geared tractor hard to work in tight quarters. I got tired of having to operate then get off to load something in the bucket that the wife wasn't strong enough to move. She doesn't operate the tractor much but with the hydro I feel alot more at ease working close to the bucket.