Jack, This is a joke, right.
Maybe it should be in the people towing something wrong thread.
Jack, If this is your setup you really need something.
1) Not sure of the trucks age but maybe you need to replace the rear springs. Check your springs for a broken leaf or they maybe just worn out.
2) Get a WD hitch to help transfer some of that load.
3) Move the tractor back on the trailer so the bucket isn't on the tongue.
4) When in transit the 3 pt attachment should be down on the deck, not up in the air.
5) Maybe you need a longer trailer if you can't back the load to balance it better.