The reason you don't find big hyd rods is the displacement ratio relates to increased return stroke volume in gpm...... For example,if the cyl displacement ratio is 2:1 then the return gpm that runs through the valve will be twice the output of the pump......if the valve core is not rated at the extreme gpm's then the two stage pump will sense the pressure drop and will cut back to the single stage or bog down the engine and will stall
On a typical installation of a log splitter with a large displacement ratio they usually use a single-pilot operated check valve mounted on a tee at a large port at the tail of the cylinder ( with a return line back to tank)..then they connect a pilot line to the retract port to sense the return pressure.......this method will allow most of the return oil to by-pass the main control valve instead of forcing it in through the valve core
2:1 is pretty easy to accomplish, and if you are pushing the valve and pump limits on the extend, without some sort of bypass, you will at least be running very high pressures during a retract. likely not enough to kaboom, but it certainly wouldn't be doing the machinery any good.
another thing to consider is that as return speed goes up, return strength goes down.
I was told by a Hydraulics engineer that a double acting cylinder needs at least 1/4" of clearance (1/2" bore to rod differential).