You might also want to look into the United States Ultralite Association (USUA). They have a nationwide network of affiliated clubs and programs simular to EAA. Ultralites (UL) are fun, cost a lot less to build, fly, and maintain than "spam cans" (general aviation aircraft), and can be flown from smaller fields. While the FAA does not require training to operate a UL, it is strongly recommended. There are many UL Basic Flight Instructors (BFI) nationwide. As with any activity you can spend a lot or a little, but you can get in the air for as little as $5,000 and the sky is the limit (no pun intended) from there. Most guys I know have between $7,500 and $15,000 in their planes, and fly almost every weekend. And these are "proper" little aircraft, with full controls, wheels, and doors (well they zip shut but they keep the wind out).I wish your wife all the luck. I took Cesna training and all I have left is the written and the check ride to finish. But UL's have captured my fancy and I have not looked back.