Tig
Veteran Member
Our county has exploded with retirees. Some choose villages some chose country side. The ones who complain are called "transplants"
When my family moved to that area in 73 I read that it takes 20 years to be absorbed into the community. Until then you will be some one from some where else.
Our new neighbours four years ago are from the city. I tried to explain private roads and some of the nuances of fitting in. They decided that the best thing to do was buy a round at the local bar because then you will own the entire hick town. That just attracted neer do wells and trouble.
Since then I had to plant a hedge to get them to stop using my septic field as their driveway / service entrance. Asking them to stop only helped when I was standing in my yard.
They also had had me tell them in no uncertain terms that the armload of hard wood and the missing cord was not for the taking when they thought I was not home. If you want some, ask! I was having a bad day and that really ticked me off when I inadvertently caught them stealing it. I could have handled that better.
I have since risen in their graces somewhat as they have alienated all their other neighbours.
They had a run in with the building inspector for ignoring bylaws and also not getting a permit.
They have received a lawyer's letter from a local business to stop them from trespassing on private roads and property. Same basic issue as my septic field.
They had to be confronted to pay for damages they did with a runaway car that hit a neighbour's building.
Other than that, they can be nice enough neighbours at the smile and wave range. I am fixing their right of way with agreement that they pay for materials and I cleared snow for them last winter. No much trouble for me to do that so no charge to them.
They don't come around as much as they used to and they now drive slower. They may adapt or they may move on.
When my family moved to that area in 73 I read that it takes 20 years to be absorbed into the community. Until then you will be some one from some where else.
Our new neighbours four years ago are from the city. I tried to explain private roads and some of the nuances of fitting in. They decided that the best thing to do was buy a round at the local bar because then you will own the entire hick town. That just attracted neer do wells and trouble.
Since then I had to plant a hedge to get them to stop using my septic field as their driveway / service entrance. Asking them to stop only helped when I was standing in my yard.
They also had had me tell them in no uncertain terms that the armload of hard wood and the missing cord was not for the taking when they thought I was not home. If you want some, ask! I was having a bad day and that really ticked me off when I inadvertently caught them stealing it. I could have handled that better.
I have since risen in their graces somewhat as they have alienated all their other neighbours.
They had a run in with the building inspector for ignoring bylaws and also not getting a permit.
They have received a lawyer's letter from a local business to stop them from trespassing on private roads and property. Same basic issue as my septic field.
They had to be confronted to pay for damages they did with a runaway car that hit a neighbour's building.
Other than that, they can be nice enough neighbours at the smile and wave range. I am fixing their right of way with agreement that they pay for materials and I cleared snow for them last winter. No much trouble for me to do that so no charge to them.
They don't come around as much as they used to and they now drive slower. They may adapt or they may move on.