300UGUY
Super Member
I don't know folks... Maybe I'm soft. Maybe it's the time of year. I've made poor decisions in my life, plenty of 'em. Thankfully, friends and family didn't lecture me on how I made my own bed, etc. They showed me compassion, and helped me out. I have a great job now, and have more than enough to provide for my needs. I find it very rewarding to pay it forward, rather than being judgmental. Remember, "There, but for the grace of God, go I..."
I wish the retired gentleman referenced by the OP well, and would help if I knew who he was. Regarding the food stamp purchase, I simply can't judge, because I don't know any of the circumstances surrounding it. Was it an ailing family member's request? I'm ok with that. Was it a parent's attempt to help their family live a little and feel like "normal" people and splurge a bit? I'm ok with that.
Merry Christmas everyone.
I feel the same way. I did a lot of dumb things, but I was lucky enough to survive. And I now realize that nobody is garuanteed time. Use it or lose it. I try to help folks out, mostly my neighbor's. I give to the SA, Toy for Tots, and a local shelter. I've given up on churches. Religion has always been the refuge of scoundrels, they have gone corporate.
Sorry for the tread drift.