how can these folks be so dumb?
I got out of there after 6 weeks, at 7k a month totally out of my pocket, and went to live in my little motorhome until I finished chemo.  Farm had just sold.  Thank goodness I had kept the motorhome, asked family not to sell it.  Like they did my truck.
My family thought I was nuts, but I overrode them and so happy I did.  That assisted living place was just awful, plus six weeks of seeing not one friend or family.
No one could enter.  I saw my oldest brother through a window.  What a terrible time that was.  Not much can rattle me any more after that.
what doesn't kill  you makes you tougher.  For real.
 ..sigh.