I know this may be a stupid question, but have you jumped it to another proven good vehicle when you tried to start it. Some diesels require being spun at a certain RPM to fire, and others are less critical. I have a Dodge Cummins that starts easy in the winter even without the grid heaters. Likewise, my old John Deere [no grids] just needs to barely turn over in the winter just starting on one good battery. Also, when you jump it, you should bypass your battery cables that may be bad and hook the positive directly on the starter, ground to block. I have seen bad cables and bad clamps lots of times. Just an idea, which you probably have already looked into....good luck..!!!