LHF2019
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- Aug 25, 2021
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- IH1586, JD2350, JD2355, JD2950, JD4040, JD4430, TD95D
I don't know what would be considered been dealt a crappy hand but here is what I have been dealt, I'm still in the game though on a different path and would it have been different if the cards had been dealt better.....who knows.I have many friends that are also farmers, both here and all around the US, from hobby sized to larger family owned and operated. I personally have not heard any of them say - seriously - that they wished they never got involved in farming, that the whole world is out to get them, that they were dealt a crappy hand or that they really want to quit & sell everything. Sure they/we might say something like that when we get bit, banged up etc, but typically we don't "really" mean it.
I'm 3rd generation on dad's side on this farm and blessed to still be hanging on to it by a thread as it is still fully owned by my mom. I got to work with my dad full time on the farm for exactly one year before being diagnosed with cancer and passed away. The proposition was simple. Take it or leave it. No succession plan, non farming lawyer, in house equipment appraisal, no 3rd party oversight, in fact no training at all. Books and all under my control. There was even equipment I had never used that I now had no father guidance on. So at 19 I now had a 60 cow dairy farm, quarter million in debt, and on top of the world, because at that age we are all young and dumb. Some finer points. Dad and uncle owned syrup business, corn planter, chopper together. From beginning mom had said didn't like some of that aspect I quickly found out why and yet there was no back up plan if that arrangement didn't work. Being highly leveraged doesn't leave many options and had zero collateral. 60 cow dairy at that time was to big to do it yourself yet to small to support custom chopping activities. Milked 3 years in what at that time was the lowest milk prices ever, labor hard to find, being a tie stall I had gotten to the point where I could no longer run, barely walk, get on a tractor or climb a ladder, I decided to lease out the cows and do relief milking and do custom fieldwork. 2 years of that got tired of dealing with mom even though business that was started from scratch was growing and could prove it, it wasn't enough. Just takes one phone call...auctioned it all.
15 years later finds me back at the farm doing what I love but situation is not any better. Still no plan, renters not taking care of the farm, owners( mom and her husband) not maintaining buildings. I now use farm buildings rent free as I am doing all the upkeep. For the last 5+ years keep asking how things are setup as my wife and I grow our hay and beef business along with other future diversification plans and her answer..................................for the last 2 years there has been an impending divorce that I'm still waiting on to get resolved. The rest of the time wife and I operate the business under one big ?
To the OP as the this thread has derailed from the original question. There does not seam to be any getting out of the hay business though there are not that many to begin with. Sure would be nice though to see some of the prices realized in other areas. There are enough people just baling whatever to keep prices of small bales under $4.50/bale