Well, you may be the lucky ones who get to choose which side of the bed you get up from. The majority of folks are dealt lousy cards they have to play with. If people have choices, very few will be driving tractors working 24/7 and praying for a good harvest in return for their backbreaking efforts. We are not living in Paradise, Chris. You are the lucky few who are spared a kick to the gut by life.
Odd way of putting it. When I was practicing as a psychologist my speciality was substance abuse. My clients talked very much like your last response. NO, I'm NOT implying or stating that you are an addict or anything like that!
Anyway, we all have bumps in our cobblestone path of life, sometimes those bumps make us fall on our face, sometimes we may catch a break and just stumble a bit. Ask yourself this little question: What would you do if you fell off a cliff? Seriously, that is the question!
Most would say something to the effect that "Oh, I'd die", "I'd scream & holler" etc.
Myself, I hope & pray that when I fall off that cliff I can be laughing and smiling all the way down - after all, people pay big bucks to catch some free fall!
Bottom line, either way you go, when you hit bottom you'll bounce. Would you like the coroner to see you with a big s#$% eatin' grin or with your eyes buldging out?
This is My philosophy on life. BTW, I've not stated this before ever here, but the reason I'm retired is because I got pretty messed up across the pond. I currently only have 10-15% use from my waist down and pretty much go from a wheelchair in the house to a track chair outside. My wife helps me get in the tractor (modified for hand use) and helps with implement changes. I can do most other things after she gets me into the SxS.
Fortunately, as I tell many, I don't have bad days, some days are just better than others. I don't think I've stated since my injury that I've been dealt bad cards or anything like that. For me it was just another bump along that cobblestone pathf of life!
Please do NOT feel sorry for me, I dont!