Here's the latest. BTW if it's an easy fix then please give the detail of how you would go about it.
I machined the collar and all that, bolted it on, and only one problem - a pin hole in my weld (was tricky welding without contacting thread on the nipple). So off it came and now it doesn't weld as well because of oil residue, and instead of being fixed it's now got a very tiny seapage at the base of the weld. Just enough to make a dirty mess in time. The seal to the cylinder is fine. A touch more welding ?? or maybe a touch of epoxy?? but no big deal other than I'm annoyed.
At least I now know that I won't have to spend the $600 or whatever an alternate ram would cost. There is definitely no damage to the cylinder, thankfully.
I'll still try to get a pic for those who are curious about what has been going on, and thanks to all.
Jack