</font><font color="blue" class="small">( ...From the jury decision it appears that the posted side of this story doesn't tell the whole story...)</font>
Of course we only know what we have read here, but it doesn't surprise me when one side lies in court and the jury believes them. It is a nightmare scenario to go to court expecting to find justice, when there are so many things that have to go just right for the outcome to be fair.
I take away three lessons from the story:
(1) Lawyers are expensive, someone has to pay them, and sometimes (about 50% of the time for cases that go to court) money paid to a lawyer does not get the desired result. (I am not putting all lawyers down - they are a necessary part of the system we have, and I wouldn't want to defend myself without a good one.)
(2) Avoid going to court, even if it means a painful settlement, unless you can really afford to take the risk of an uncertain outcome. Standing on principle is an admirable thing as long as you know the risks and know that being "right" does not always mean you will win.
(3) Neighbors can have a tremendous impact on the joy you get out of living on your own piece of land. Some of them are saints and some are a**holes, but maintaining at least a civil relationship with all of them is a worthy goal.
This story, as told here, is very sad and frightening. I'm going to try not to forget it whenever I have neighbor trouble.