OP
I'm a huge zip fan. But if you build a super tight house (as you should), you also need to provide a means for fresh air ventilation, like an HRV or ERV - which most people still don't seem committed to doing. As a result I am a little wary of recommending everyone to build a super tight envelope if they aren't going to mechanically ventilate. A lot of humans in America are sucking down super stale air inside their homes, loaded with chemical off-gassing (from your cabinets, particle board furniture, plastic carpeting, and all the chemicals under the sink, etc). If you brought an air meter into these homes you'd find high VOCs, CO2 levels and possibly even low O2 depending upon occupancy and ventilation modalities.You have to air seal somehow, to say zip is a waste of money is a red flag to me. The more I see about zip, the more I like it. Make sure they tape the tyvek properly, including along the foundation, at the top, and at the openings and all seams. Sounds like a builder that just want's to keep it the way he's always done it.