Interesting comment about the armored car and a VERY good point.
Was at father in laws house for dinner last night and saw his preliminary notes scribbled on his scratchpad...
He has all 3 houses written down at $250,000 each. I'm just mystified at his thinking process.
If he WANTED to sell and listed the house, I could then understand selling it perhaps for $250,000 ,though given he has like 2 acres, commanding view on the lake, I'd think 450,000 would be a LOT more accurate. He is not factoring in a DIME into his price, the fact that they are ASKING him to leave.
He just has a historical tendency of selling things too low. In fact, he was bi***ing just last night on how he sold his PRIOR house too cheap. It was a 5,000 sq ft 4 story house also on the lake.
Seems to me if he's cranking about underselling his LAST house, he MIGHT be a bit more open to do this one properly.
sigh
Anyways, wife & I are calling an apprasier today. I"m going to pay for it out of my OWN pocket if need be. First, I think I need one for my house even if this deal does NOT pan out. Second, I'll have the guy do apprasials on the other two houses AND the farm.
My wife has the basic frame of mind of "shut up and let the them do what they want...it's their land"
My frame of mind is, "though I don't want to intrude on what is in fact YOUR business and none of mine... I WILL intrude if I think you're getting screwed because you ARE part of my family now and I DO care for you and do NOT want to see anyone walk all over YOU...(even though you DO seem to think you are a doormat, sigh)
I told the wife that what she ought to tell her dad is:
"He should tell the prospective buyers that they can hand him (example) $10,000 UP FRONT to enter negotiations. If the land is sold, it will come off the price, if not, it's not refundable"
She looked at me with big eyes..."why"???
I said, "because if he's going to do it RIGHT and get an attorney, apprasial, tax advice... it's not fair that he spend for all of that out of HIS pocket, just to have them giggle and say... "nah, we changed our mind".
I went on to say, if they are just dinkering around, it will get rid of them REAL quick, and if they DO fork it over, you know they're more than casually interested.
I got another /forums/images/graemlins/ooo.gif from her lol
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