There are more opportunities for death and destruction than we could record and write on this webpage... denoting a few doesn't change anything..
If my wife swerved to miss something in the road and opted to hit something in the median or swale, then I would ahve to assume she chose the lesser of the 2 dangers.. which is what i would choose. IE.. If I immediatly say a semi barreling down my lane and impact was iminent, and my only out was to the right swale, where a power pole happened to be.. you got it.. I'd be aiming to shear off a power pole.. 2 choices.. neither of them good.. oone worse than the other.. I'd probably make the same choice if it was a soft human being that jumped out in the road as well.. me strapped into my truck will have a better chance of living , hitting a power pole, than a soft pinky hitting the front of my truck going 55mph.
Lifes all about choices... you try to make the best ones you can. there is no guarantee that you will always have a 'good' choice as an option.. IE.. there isn't always an 'out' Sometimes you have a frying pan / fire situation.. you pays your money and you takes yer chances.. try to make the best choice.. then deal with the consequences.
next comes the issue of driver error, or mechanical failure.
If my wife just plain flubs up and spins out of control and shoots of fthe road and crashes into a house.. it will be a sad day... but I'm not going to sue the people that live on that street because their house was in the way ( borrowed that analogy from another poster ) lets face it.. it was an error .. it may or may not have been preventable under the circumstances.. however.. there is no re-wind button.. it happened.. got to deal with the consequences. Similar with mechanical failure.. except there may be some liability on the part of the manufacturer, IF that were the case.. " IF".
Callous? Naa.. I enjoy life.. I just don't stick my head in the sand to avoid seeing and realizing all the hardships and issues the world has.
Rarely has candy-coating the truth ever helped much. You can either choose to deal with life as it unfolds, or burry your head in the sand and then call everyone else callous...

( lots of other choices between those two I'm sure... ) I'm simply not afraid to call it as i see it. A person who does something irresponsible and then expires.. well.. it may be sad.. but who is really to blame.. The guy inthe dump truck stopped at the stop light.. or the person looking in their back seat that plowed into the back of the dump truck because they were not paying attention? Sad .. maybee.. but I don't see anything other than clear careless driving.. and lack of responsibility at work there... past that.. it's all physics and luck. We all know what high speed things do when they hit large mostly non moving things. Throw a little random vector in there, and you can have anything from scratches and bruises, traffic tickets and a tow truck.. to a herse... sorry you don't like that.. it's just the way this world happens to work. ( Maybee if you were in charge.. it would be all different?? let me know how that works out if it ever happens

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turbo36 said:
I don't need to "wake up and read the paper" I'm aware of the world and the selfless thinking you are dealing out here. Why add to the opportunity for death and destruction on our highways? I guess if you wife swerves to avoid something in the road and impales herself on a overbuilt mailbox you would write it off as a deduction from the gene pool? Have you become so callous to life that a little empathy is no longer part of your thinking? How sad for you.