Sodo
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Sounds like a goal. Not sure ThomasH is 'there yet' himself but it is a worthy goal! :thumbsup: Same here, I'm working on it and I'll get there.You are very good at telling people not to do things and then you go do those exact things yourself. Pretty funny.
I thought it was a collective of expertise across all the different areas.
I have and will continue to seek out the more experienced advise for my needs. Not saying I can't learn from others by any means, but if I were seeking marriage counseling I would ask the couple who were married for 50 years, not for 5.
Firedog if there's only a 5yr and a 50yr, I'd listen to both (and hope for even more advice from some 10 & 20 years). For example, what if the 50yr couple's most significant action was to get separate bedrooms just before it all fell apart? If you're an old guy that might work for you. A young guy? "Well, not so much".
IMHO this forum has a significant problem that the "proverbial 50 year old couple" doesn't want other points of view on the forum. IMHO this situation will ****** the development of everyone who wants a well-rounded experience from the forum.
I think the experienced should offer other ways to think about any situation, for example, to let their student do their part in the learning process. But currently they make their statement, then post cartoons, incite arguments, fan flames, try to gather supporters, and add off-topic stories about crazy big jobs that have no application to the thread beyond ego stoking. Then they get in a huff and threaten to leave the forum unless they get some love and quick. It is kind of immature, and it brings out the immaturity in others, a recipe for forum failure.
Often I see good good teachable moments lost like this, and really, all they're accomplishing is teaching others is how to "act experienced". That doesn't work in the rest of the world, I don't see why it's welcome here. This forum won't fail, it will go on, but there can be lost opportunities.
Certainly there are actual "proverbial 50-year old couple" with mountains of knowledge, with ability and motivation to teach in a forum environment, knows how to take other points of view and weave them into knowledge. That would be GREAT! But this person must have the time do it for FREE and have thick skin.
			
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