We were in the same boat a few years back. Story starts in 09, we were using a 99 Ram 2500 Diesel for business and needed to add another truck. I've always been a Ford Guy, and was never impressed with the reliability of the Dodge. It had a ton of power, just always had stuff needing to be fixed.
Started the search with the 2010 Ford and really didn't like the feel, and nearly freaked out when I popped the hood. Looked like a maintenance nightmare. After looking at the GMC and then Dodge, we Ended up with a 2010 Tundra CrewMax.
It's been the best vehicle we've ever owned. Drives great, tons of power, tows like a dream and now has 67,000 miles on the clock.
Last year we made a quick stop by the Ford dealer on the way to Toyota to get a 2013 Tundra Doublecab to add to the mix.
If you do your own maintenance, Pop the hood on the Ford, Dodge and then take a look at the Toyota.
Was also pleased to see it was made in Texas.
Brad