Well, yes, I was lazy this winter but Spring has arrived and now I need my tractor. I have an update on my oil burning / gas in oil problem with my Kohler Command 23. First thanks for all the guidance on this type of issue.
As I mentioned before, I had ordered a fuel pump, 2 head gasket kits and 2 intake valve seals.
After pulling the spark plugs all became clear, yes I know, why not do that before ordering parts. I will keep learning.
Anyway, left side plug was oil fouled and doubt it would even spark. Other side was perfect color, so pulled that one head and found oil/gas in the cylinder. Pretty surprised to see that. The head gasket looked fine, the valve seal looked "ok" and the valve seats seemed fine by testing with liquid carb cleaner and no leaks / seeping going past the valves. Cylinder walls still showed factory cross-hatching and looked fine. The head gasket also looked ok, so I was scratching my head thinking I was missing something. Also pulled apart the carb to clean and found the fuel shutoff solenoid was stuck. long story short; cleaned the carb and put back together, passed the head over a flat stone with some abrasive to clean, smooth up check for flatness. Replaced the intake valve seal, new head gasket with new washers and nuts, cleaned up the e3 plug and put it back together. Well, that has seemed to fix everything. Plug burn looks good, tractor was used for 4 hours after finishing up the rebuild and no smoking / oil burning to date. thanks again all!
So my assessment is:
bad head gasket or valve seal caused severe fouling in one cylinder.
gasoline went unburned and was able to find a way down to the crankcase oil.
condition of oil deteriorated to point where I started to burn the thinned oil.