Only the 3pt sounds like it is straining until I raise the loaderSo when the loader is being used, hydraulic fluid is usually returned to the tank via the low pressure return hose. High pressure goes out the pressure beyond. That's why I asked about the hydraulic lines. The power beyond hose and the return to tank might be crossed up. So, the power to the 3ph is coming from the FEL "return" hose, when you operate the FEL.
Does the hydraulic system seem to be straining? or normal sounding?