Let me see


I had a Ford pickup truck that had the gas tank behind the seat. When I got hit from the side by a cement truck the tank leaked but luckily I got out just smelling of gasoline

I had a Plymouth where the engine mount sheared causing the throttle to stick open

-- turned it off -- walked home
I had a Jeep that used to just cut out at highway speeds leaving you without power steering and brakes (turned out to be the ignition module)

Fixed it myself after three trips to the dealer
I had a Pontiac Phoenix the had a clip drop off the shift linkage leaving it fourth on a twelve lane highway

--used a piece of popcan to hold it untill I could get a replacement
I had a Toyota FJ that got the front sheared off by a Buick that ran a stop at at an intersection, flipped on its side, skidded on its side for 50 yards or so and then was hit by another car coming the other way. SWIMBO and I both walked away (admittedly a little banged up by seat belts and airbags).
I believe in my lifetime cars have become incredibly safer. The OP asked if I would have my loved ones drive a Toyota -- in comparison to some of the POS that I drove that had no concept of safety and for which I never recieved anything from the manufacturers except grief when I complained --I would say yes.
To claim that Toyota is a company with no sense of responsibility in an industry that in its history has had incidents that make one believe that that they viewed accidents as a way to sell another new vehicle just seems a bit extreme to me. I am not a diehard Toyota owner -- I have owned just about every make of vehicle going.
If all the claims were true and reporting was unbiased, you would think that all Toyotas should be taken off the road and company management put in prison. Following that logic one should never buy Tylenol, Chilean grapes, Ford Explorers and Firestone tires, California Strawberries, (and the list goes on) and a number of management from those organizations (and union leaders) should be in the same cell with Bernie Madoff.


If only the world were that perfect

-- JMHO