Im on high deductible plan. Already met my family deductible this yr. Yes, i had to pay thousands out of pocket, but i saved that in premium reduction from the other plans. I calculated it will save me money.
As for retiring before 65, that was / is a big obstacle for me. I just found a way though. As a previous govt employee, i took a deferred retirement, which means no healthcare. Found out i can return to govt, get healthcare, then retire immediately with healthcare. I have just under 3 yrs to hit my retirement age, so need to get another govt job in 3 yrs.