There is a line between building it well, and wasting a lot of money without any noticeable difference to the end product. First thing you need to do is talk to your metal roofing supplier. This is where a lot of people go wrong. Do not buy from a national sales company that is just buying from the manufacturer and adding fees to it without any support or hands on experience. Since I don't know your area, I can't comment on who to buy from, but that needs to be your main focus. Here, I have a company caller Mueller's that manufacturers all their products. When I need metal for a roof, I go to their office and talk to the guys there that know their products. They sell very good quality screws and from what I understand, they are the biggest metal roof supplier in this part of country.
My house has a metal roof. Most of it is over 2x4 purlins on the flat with trusses 4 feet apart. My purlins are 12 or 16 feet long except a few that are only 4 feet long where there was no other option. My porch has rafters 2 feet apart and OSB over them, then 30 pound paper on top of the OSB, and then my metal on top of the paper.
When I build my barn I will put my trusses every 4 feet with 2x4 purlins every four feet on the flat, and then attach my metal to the purlins. I will have open eaves for and a ridge vent to get maximum air flow. Then I will install metal on the ceiling and blow in 2 feet of insulation to get R60.