Ahh... Tacoma diffs... I know a thing or two because I've seen a thing or two.

Not exactly fun. Amazon sells spare plugs for a few dollars, fyi.
As far as the ass backwards on the plugs, for me, my manual specifies to check the front axle oil every 50 hours. So this is not necessary a 'field check' daily thing, like the engine oil. Typically, you're checking the front axle oil at the shop or garage, where tools are more available. That's not saying you cant, or shouldnt, check it in the field, but, you know what I mean.
And 50 hours seems a bit... frequent for me. I check mine about once or twice a year. Not even sure of the hours. It's typically when I A) have the tractor in the shop for an oil change or something. And B) when I remember.
The fact that your tractors also have a dipstick (and a plastic fill port cap) is odd to me. Mine are simple threaded plugs, like on most diffs. A fill inlet with steel threaded plug, and a check port, again, with steel threaded plug. I'm just grateful they have the fill port and don't require oil to be pumped into the tiny check port!
All this to say, I have no idea as to why they would put a dip stick on the side of an axle with a steel screw, and a plastic fill port cap. I guess they assume the "check port" should be where you check it, and there really is not anything to damage a plastic cap on the top of the axle. If it were me, I'd probably replace that plastic cap with a steel one though.
