It sounds like you are probably going to come out OK on this. A quick Google search will find you a cheap set of telescoping bore gauges for probably $20 or so..not the best but if you are careful and have access to a decent digital caliper or micrometer and can get repeatable readings you can check your cylinder for out-of-round and not have to spend too much on tools. For about $70-$80 you can get a cheap dial bore indicator set, again not the best and probably a gamble for the money but an option I'm just throwing out there.
You found an excellent deal on the flex hone, they are a much better way to go than using the cheap expandable hones in my opinion.
I have to ask...what does your buddy that took the coolant out have to say about all of this? Is he willing to kick in ($$$) on this? I know it can be a bad situation, it's exactly why i don't lend my stuff anymore.
Thanks, I'll look into that. I've got a dial indicator that I've used for years. It may not be "to the gnats butt exact" but it could probably tell me the cylinder was out of round though....I see what your saying.
As far as the coolant drainer guy he said he felt bad and offered to help pay. I doubt I'll take him up on it though.....you see, I live around 1,000 miles from where I NORMALLY keep the tractor (I brought it home for these repairs). I normally leave it at the farm, and use it when I'm there which is only 3 or 4 times a year. The guy knew it needed more antifreeze with a hard freeze coming, so he was doing me a favor (without telling me) and replacing the antifreeze. I came to the farm early and unannouced while he was in town buying antifreeze......The Perfect Storm
Chris