Lauren has been a trooper. She has her ups and downs and there have been frustrated tears but overall she has remained upbeat. We keep pushing. She has found a small handful of very good Dr’s but we have had to sift thru some outrageous incompetence. With an underweight young woman the default is always eating disorder every doctor wants to run tox screen and pregnancy test no matter that the last dozen tests have all been negative. Yesterday we had nutritionist who had dr’s notes saying grade 3 gastroparesis and it was supposed to be to get formula ordered for after the jejunostomy. She looked at endocrinology notes and started asking questions about eating disorder. Lauren explained why she was there. The woman had mot read the notes and was not prepared. Said she would have to get back to her. In her after meeting notes she wrote that they talked about an eating disorder. I was not at that appointment. She is an adult and often I sit outside but I will be in surgeon consult tomorrow.
She has to be a trooper to go through what she had gone through. It has to be hard on your daughter mentally. Her setting and listening to what the Doctors are saying and knowing the consequences would be a very tough thing to do.