We, as parents, want to protect our Children from harm, both physically and mentally. But this is impossible, no matter how hard we try or what measures we take. I will state what others have said. There will, most probably be other emotional times in both the lives of You and your Wife, relating to your Children's upbringing. BTW, we have four Grandchildren and we experienced the same worries regarding their welfare as we did with our own Children. But, LIFE goes on. Best wishes to your entire Family.