rox
Veteran Member
GEB,
Well then i do see that your lead in is that you are not able to mow. If I were in your neighbors shoes and you came over and said that my discharging water is so heavy that you were not able to mow, i think I would take action on it. So if you can show him that this affects you, you can't mow, then my guess is that he will help you. i do see why the original owners of his house ran the pipe out to the lot line, your property was all overgrown and it wasn't hurting anything to run the water in a "wild' area.
What would really impress the neighbor I think is if you mowed but then did not mow the wet areas so he could see the tall grass and see your problem. that might be a god time to call him and ask for his help. Also keep in mind that everybody reacts differently. My husband a lot of times will present a negative first reaction but after thinking about it a bit he comes around. If yu run into that, you might suggest that the neighbor think about it and check out some solutions and talk again next week. in other words you don't ahve to "win" the first time at bat. Let him think about it and try again a week later. Chances are in a week he will come around. if you have the right approach I bet he will come around, if he can see with his own eyes (tall grass not mowed) that you do have a problem as a result of his water.
good luck and keep us all posted.
Well then i do see that your lead in is that you are not able to mow. If I were in your neighbors shoes and you came over and said that my discharging water is so heavy that you were not able to mow, i think I would take action on it. So if you can show him that this affects you, you can't mow, then my guess is that he will help you. i do see why the original owners of his house ran the pipe out to the lot line, your property was all overgrown and it wasn't hurting anything to run the water in a "wild' area.
What would really impress the neighbor I think is if you mowed but then did not mow the wet areas so he could see the tall grass and see your problem. that might be a god time to call him and ask for his help. Also keep in mind that everybody reacts differently. My husband a lot of times will present a negative first reaction but after thinking about it a bit he comes around. If yu run into that, you might suggest that the neighbor think about it and check out some solutions and talk again next week. in other words you don't ahve to "win" the first time at bat. Let him think about it and try again a week later. Chances are in a week he will come around. if you have the right approach I bet he will come around, if he can see with his own eyes (tall grass not mowed) that you do have a problem as a result of his water.
good luck and keep us all posted.