When I started driving, we had seat belts, but tires, brakes, and handling were much worse than today's vehicles.
As it was a much harsher Darwinian time (people walk away from high speed crashes with automobiles today, that routinely killed people back then) anyone with even a little sense did exactly what you describe rsallen - find a large empty parking lot during the first good snow, and
learn your vehicle's limits. Although vehicle safety systems are better today (I'll get back to that....), that
Test Before Emergency Happens strategy still holds true.....
As UR started with in this thread, a lot of the time there needs to be a whole lot more thinking going on behind the wheel, period.
There have been a lot of safety advances in the time I've been driving. But, in many ways, people are much more disconnected (in more respects than just driving) today than ever.
There was/is an aviation thread on here, that I posted a link to a long Maclean's article that detailed air disasters that occured, largely because avionics masked or mis-reported basic issues that could have fairly readily be flown around/compensated for,
if the pilots realized what was going on. That old blind-faith in technology thing.... writ large.....
I was at my buddy's commercial shop the other day, he was checking over a customer's car out front, just before they picked it up. It was at the shop for something else entirely, but he was checking tire pressures anyway, something he routinely does for regular customers. One of the front car tires had 60 psi in it - way high.
In older days, you'd notice the difference under hard braking on dry pavement, and, if you had any sense, check it out. Add ABS, overinflated tire won't break traction..... few drivers will notice the longer-than-spec braking distances thus created.
Yeah, I know, the answer (TPMS) is add more technology

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Yep, lived all my life in the Great White Nord.... have driven through stuff that I'd wish on only a
few of my worst enemies, including some massive ice-storms ('98 was a doozy). All of the modern alphabet soup of safety systems have their merits, and limitations.
Rgds, D.