Generally what is occurring is the temperature has increased since the time when you disconnected the implement. This can be the actual air temperature or that the implement is being exposed to the sun thus heating up the hydraulic fluid making it expand.
The expansion can be to the point where the little tricks like pushing male end against a sturdy surface on the ball to relive the pressure, covering the ball with a rag and taping with a soft mallet, etc... just doesn't work.
The only solution at that point is to crack a treaded connection somewhere in the line to allow some fluid to leak out. Once you have bleed the pressure off the quick connects will connect very easy.
If you have truly relived the pressure and the connections don't connect with hand pressure I'd say its time to replace one or both (male & female) fittings.