Distilled water is steam vapor collected on a stainless hood into a stainless or glass basin.
DI water is De-Ionized. You can look up the process.
RO is Reverse Osmosis, going thru 2 times.
The three shown are the ones out there for ALL VEHICLES, FOR ALL MAKES AND MODELS. Meaning they are acceptable even of the old classics. These formulas are safer to use in the old systems, like your El Camino.
To flush out WELL TAP WATER, you will need to also use C-L-R. Well water is known to contain all kinds of things. My place runs both a sediment filter and then a 2-micron filter before the holding pressure tank. It's not quite RO.
As for preference, there is only one on the shelves in all the box stores, the Prestone. It in Walmart, Menards, AutoZone, etc.
The trouble maker coolants are the ones with For GM vehicles only or DexCool type formula. In fact the original GM DexCool formula had several Class Action Lawsuits for making sludge and destroying engines. GM with other woes then did a bankruptcy. The court then agreed with GM and gave a $500 voucher towards a purchase of a new GM vehicle as restitution. For the 17-million vehicle owners in the Class Action Lawsuit, it was the last day they would ever own another GM product. In fact, the boycott was very strong for a few years even after that. Only the 2nd US gov bailout saved them. Out of the 17-million owners, many were their own UAW and engineering employees. Entire generations of GM families walked away, swearing never to own their products ever again.
The original GM DexCool was also used in a few other selected vehicle brands outside GM too.
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