Perils of retirement

   / Perils of retirement #61  
Things I don't miss about work. I don't miss the long drive to and from work, I don't miss those darn Monday morning meetings. I don't miss deadlines and pressures, especially my last year there the pressures to make sales when I was a sales exec. really sucked. My time there as an engineer wasn't bad. I don't miss the constant training schedule and seminars to attend, I don't miss the air travel and the time away from home at all. No, I guess I don't miss work much at all. :)

My wife has become a bit concerned. After a day at the farm, when I come home in the evening, she'll ask "what was your human contact today"? A good day is when I can say "none". Kinda freaks her out. I love it. :)
 
   / Perils of retirement #62  
...Gotta say... ****, I loved my job! I really missed it for the first 8 years of retirement. Now, not so much. I was taken advantage of, underpaid and overworked. Marriage suffered, fell apart and so forth. Glad I survived it. Being stress-free now is the best reward.

I say this with no malice. Not pointed at you, just a general statement.

It's my belief that people who's jobs are their lives struggle the hardest with retirement. They don't have anything to fill that gap with.

I was very good at what I did. I always had a life waiting for me outside of it all. I have been richly Blessed.
 
   / Perils of retirement #63  
Worst thing about retirement ids there are no holidays or vacation

And calendars may be necessary!

When I first retired I begin to notice that I kept so busy I might not get the day of the week correct, but I didn't care. Then as time went on I might make a mistake as to what month it was, but I didn't care. I'm working on getting it so I don't care what year it is.

I'm 46 years old now. My plan is to run out to 65 because I have a good paying job and it's not stressful or hard on me. <snip>

When I was your age I was planning on working until I was 70. Loved my job, mainly worked with great people training young soldiers in map-making. Flew all over the world on the company dime and usually could squeeze a weekend vacation in Germany or Hawaii a few times a year while being paid on travel. Most of my cohorts felt the same way. Work and life was good.
When I got to 55, loved my job doing the same thing but the bureaucracy was growing and they had me traveling almost 3 weeks a month. Got so I was getting 4 to 6 weekend days away from home each month for a while. Then when I was about 58 we had 4 people die, one from sudden unexpected heart attack, one from a sudden cancer, one struck by a car while walking to work, one in his sleep while on travel. All were near my age. And my wife had 2 strokes. One so severe she had to spend a year recuperating (which she did :) :) ) and retired. About then I figured out it wasn't worth it to me to work for a few dollars an hour and maybe getting buried before I retired and enjoy the fruits of my labor.


My wife has become a bit concerned. After a day at the farm, when I come home in the evening, she'll ask "what was your human contact today"? A good day is when I can say "none". Kinda freaks her out. I love it. :)

That's pretty poor! You should say something like "My human contact is dealing with a lovely lady - YOU"
 
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#64  
I say this with no malice. Not pointed at you, just a general statement.

It's my belief that people who's jobs are their lives struggle the hardest with retirement. They don't have anything to fill that gap with.

I was very good at what I did. I always had a life waiting for me outside of it all. I have been richly Blessed.

Yeppers, it just took me awhile to let it go. New Wife, New Life and just happy as can be now. Most of my old work friends have retired and moved on, mostly to out of state. Still have a couple of friends that I see on occasion. I still find plenty to do around the house and the homestead.
 
   / Perils of retirement #65  
My wife has become a bit concerned. After a day at the farm, when I come home in the evening, she'll ask "what was your human contact today"? A good day is when I can say "none". Kinda freaks her out. I love it. :)

Mad me laugh, but I can relate whole heartedly. My human contact consisted of waving to the neighbor as he drove down his driveway while I was feeding the steers tonight. Some days I don't even have that much.

When I retired I owned 40 acres in Wyoming that I planned on retiring but that didn't work out. Another story and its a long one. But I still had a piece of property with the X and that didn't get settled until almost two years after I retired and almost 10 years after the divorce. Yea I know and thats another story too!! When all was settled an I sold all the properties I bought the place I have now. I decided that I was going to simplify everything. Fixed this place up to my likings (not complete but getting there) and I can't tell you how much stuff I thru away and hauled to good will and sold the rest. I don't have pictures hanging in the house, no carpet to vacuum, no curtains just shades, no junk laying around that I don't use. I pulled every piece of scrubs around the house so no trimming. Everything I do and think of doing anymore I think how much upkeep is this going to need in the future and do I really need it. I can't tell you how much better life is without all the stuff I had and things I use to have to do. My brother came and visited me this summer and I loaded him up with lots of stuff I didn't use or really had time for anymore. Next time he comes which should be next summer I'm getting a load ready for him again. Makes him happy and tickles me to death. I myself raise my own pigs, chickens and beef to eat. Have a garden in the summer. I like to fill my belly, sit on the front porch and drink coffee. I like simple with a touch of stuff and not complicated with lots of stuff. Lots less to worry about.
 
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#66  
Mad me laugh, but I can relate whole heartedly. My human contact consisted of waving to the neighbor as he drove down his driveway while I was feeding the steers tonight. Some days I don't even have that much.

When I retired I owned 40 acres in Wyoming that I planned on retiring but that didn't work out. Another story and its a long one. But I still had a piece of property with the X and that didn't get settled until almost two years after I retired and almost 10 years after the divorce. Yea I know and thats another story too!! When all was settled an I sold all the properties I bought the place I have now. I decided that I was going to simplify everything. Fixed this place up to my likings (not complete but getting there) and I can't tell you how much stuff I thru away and hauled to good will and sold the rest. I don't have pictures hanging in the house, no carpet to vacuum, no curtains just shades, no junk laying around that I don't use. I pulled every piece of scrubs around the house so no trimming. Everything I do and think of doing anymore I think how much upkeep is this going to need in the future and do I really need it. I can't tell you how much better life is without all the stuff I had and things I use to have to do. My brother came and visited me this summer and I loaded him up with lots of stuff I didn't use or really had time for anymore. Next time he comes which should be next summer I'm getting a load ready for him again. Makes him happy and tickles me to death. I myself raise my own pigs, chickens and beef to eat. Have a garden in the summer. I like to fill my belly, sit on the front porch and drink coffee. I like simple with a touch of stuff and not complicated with lots of stuff. Lots less to worry about.

Feeling a bit envious and would have loved that type of existence in a former life.
 
   / Perils of retirement #67  
Some of my buddies from Exxon called me a few months after I retired and inquired whether I'd be interested in going on a foreign assignment. Told them (2nd time they'd asked) "no".

Then they got to talking, asking whether I missed work: "no". This was even before I got involved with master gardening. Think maybe I'd gotten into bowling at that point.

Ralph
 
   / Perils of retirement #68  
Some of my buddies from Exxon called me a few months after I retired and inquired whether I'd be interested in going on a foreign assignment. Told them (2nd time they'd asked) "no".

Then they got to talking, asking whether I missed work: "no". This was even before I got involved with master gardening. Think maybe I'd gotten into bowling at that point.

Ralph

Man I can sure tell my memory sure is going. I was also call the very next week by previous employer and asked if I would be interested in coming back to work. It was my boss and my response was you mean I didn't piss you off enough before I left that you really want me to work there again. I didn't even wait for a response and hung up laughing. Never got a call again. Now I have to forget that again. Thanks!!!!!
 
   / Perils of retirement #69  
My wife has become a bit concerned. After a day at the farm, when I come home in the evening, she'll ask "what was your human contact today"? A good day is when I can say "none". Kinda freaks her out. I love it. :)

I can understand that!
 
   / Perils of retirement #70  
...It's my belief that people who's jobs are their lives struggle the hardest with retirement. They don't have anything to fill that gap with.

There is a place I frequent for work, where it is not uncommon to see retirement posters for final farewells. Years of service are usually in the decades. Not shortly thereafter one hears of the retiree's demise.
 

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