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IF you happen to need medical care, the insurance sure comes in handy doesn't it? You paid $2K, the insurance company paid $8K. I think that means you need to reduce the amount of insurance premiums you said you have wasted over the years by that $8K.
I'd say you got off cheap either way. DD needed ear surgery earlier this year, guess we could have skipped it if we didn't mind her being deaf on one side. The hospital charged $16K
JUST for the operating room and I think that was only about 1 hour of time. That didn't include the surgeon, the 2 anesthesiologists nor the recovery room. We paid $1,600 for the OR, had already hit the deductible earlier. And of course we paid a bunch for the other 'services' as well. That is with DW's employer Blue Cross coverage which costs us about $8K a year.
I'm a little confused that you said you own your home but will have it paid off by the time you are 40. So, at this point in time, the bank owns your home
You get to decide what you want to do but I will add 2 things.
1) You said you won't need the SS you will pay over the years, kinda suggesting that you won't get it because you'll have plenty of money? Not the way it works. I suppose you don't HAVE to take it but you are eligible regardless if you have no assets or $1.5 BILLION.
2) Maximize your 401K contributions, not just to the employer match but to the federal cap. That is pretax and will grow to far more than your SS.