Thank all of you for the infomation and advice. In the beginning I only wanted a small generator to run a couple of hosehold items and be portable enough to carry to other parts of the property and other farm.
I have a 600 gal propane tank for the gas furnace and plan for a future whole house generator that will run off the propane. However power outages are rare around here unless we get an ice storm and have had several of those in the past few years. So a whole house gen would be nice but past history says power outages are few and last only 4-12 hours. However there have been areas that power was out for several days. This is what has led me to think about getting a larger portable gen to run essential items like:
woodfurnace for heat, two fans in the back duct into whole house. This is all the heat we would need, also have gas logs so would/could use to power fan for gas logs. But would most likely use the wood furnace for heat.
Well pump, stove, electric water heater, 2 refrigerators, 1 freezer, TV, and a few lights.
Work with an electrcian beforehand to make it easier on you. With an electric water heater and if your stove is electric also, you may not be able to use those. Discussing things with an electrician beforehand allows you to think about workarounds. As an example, if your stove is electric and you can't cook meals with that, you may want your microwave on a switch and some plugs in the kitchen would also mean you could use a crockpot. Central air conditioning is out of the question but you may be able to power a window unit and keep a small area cool. Those decisions also will determine how large a transfer switch you want (6, 8, . . . ) Also, I believe your well pump will use 2 circuits on it's own so will a 6 circuit switch be enough?
I don't store gas on hand but I live in VA and our winters are much milder and shorter. Last year our winter was brutal but that's the exception to the rule. The weather folks have gotten spot on at predicting snow storms and the amount of snow expected with it. I have a small corner in the garage with all the things needed in an outage. Generator stayed plugged in, I have 5 five gallon containers for gas, gencord and I laminated the instructions of how to do the whole setup. I can always get gas before an expected storm or at the first snowflake. If the storm never happens I'll just empty that gas into our car tanks. During summer storms, with no snow we can always get out to get gas with no problems. Being in VA I think this should work for me - I'd store/rotate much more gas if I lived in a northern state that got a lot of snow or had outages all the time.