pros and cons of rural living

   / pros and cons of rural living
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#61  
Harv – You’re right about stuff like it being harder to find friends for kids to play with, etc. But, I still prefer fewer people around. There’s less chance of being around the undesirable ones. My wife meets people that live in town and they invite her to bring the kids for a visit, so she has done that. But, when she invites people from town to our house, they don’t bother to “go all the way out there”. Fortunately for us, the elementary school is only 3.5 miles away and every bit as good as any school in town or in the big cities, if not better. But, when it comes time for high school, they will have to “go all the way into town”. You’re right about the hospital, it’s a long way for the ambulance if something happens and that extra time could make the difference. Same problem with the fire dept, since we have a volunteer fire dept. You’re also right about the abundance of recreation activities and facilities in town, but from what I recall the parks and bike trials in town are usually very crowded. As far as bike paths go, I plan to make my own on my property, probably with Polypavement, (see the thread “Better than Asphalt and easier to apply” under Off Topic & Just For Fun) and we’ll have it all to ourselves. Yup, everything is convenient in town, but everything is also crowded. I go to Indy to go shopping a few times a year and it helps me appreciate where I am! Also, fortunately for me, there’s a TSC only 20 miles away (used to be a Quality store) and I can get there in less time that it used to take me to go 5 miles in the city traffic. It sounds like your “country place” is pretty far out, maybe too far out for raising a family without making the kids miss out on too much. I’m only 15 miles from the edge of a small city (population 30k), which works out pretty good. If I was 15 miles from Indy, that would be a problem because the city would take over in 10 years. We are on a county water supply line and I don’t mind paying for it because I never liked water softened water, it feels slimy to me. Just personal preference. We also have a well for watering the garden, washing the cars, etc. Our kids don’t have many friends, but they’re not in school yet. They start kindergarten next year, so we’ll see how that goes. But, they also haven’t picked up some of the language and attitudes they would have if they were around other kids more. We take them to the people we know for Halloween and that’s plenty. I like not having to deal with too many at our door.

As far as golf goes, the previous owner mowed 5 acres as a lawn and must have been a golfer. I’ve been here 5 years and I’m still finding golf balls. I’m sure they’re on the neighbor’s property also. I feel the same way about golf as my Dad did, just don’t care for it at all. He always said, and I agree, “That if I’m going to hit a ball, somebody else can chase it!”

Bayrat and others commenting on the trash – I guess I stand corrected on that one. You’re right, there is more in the city, they just have crews to clean it up, whereas I have to clean up my own.

We also have a pretty good place to go get pizza within 3 miles. It’s a little county store. I don’t buy anything else there though because they are high on prices.

Paul – “4 of 7 roads to place under water when rains are heavy”. I mowed the low spots in my yard yesterday and within 2 hours there was a foot of water where I was mowing. It started raining about 7pm and by 8pm I had 1.3” in the rain gauge. There’s a county ditch across the road and when it rains that hard it floods the road and goes about 20’ into my yard. It gets about a foot deep. My wife was at choir practice and came home in it and it’s a good thing we have only trucks (no cars in this family!) and she knows exactly where the driveway is! Fortunately, the house is 175’ away and up a slope. My drain tile did it’s job though, and the water was gone from the yard by this morning. Still pretty soggy though, so it’s a good thing I got it mowed!
 
   / pros and cons of rural living #62  
Thanks for your insights, Mosey. Sounds like you know both sides of the tracks pretty well.
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I'm still trying to make our foothill property more attractive to the kids, which is fun for me right now.
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I've been thinking about the bicycle thing, and my current plan is to just get good mountain bikes for the whole family when the budget permits. I think the tractor paths I've been creating will serve just fine for such bikes, and I can always add a few more trails with a few more hours in the tractor seat. /w3tcompact/icons/grin.gif

A note about tractor-cleared paths -- I feel fairly free to blaze trails almost anywhere on the property 'cuz I've noticed that all it takes to convert them back to nature is to not maintain them for about one year.
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   / pros and cons of rural living
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#63  
Harv - I have lived in rural areas (Buena Vista, CO) where the nearest movie theater is 100 miles away as well as any decent stores. I have also lived in big cites (Houston and Denver). Neither suited me. Where I am now is much better than either, although I do miss the mountains. I would like to have more acreage, but otherwise it’s a good compromise. One thing I don’t understand is why anyone would want to live in one of those subdivisions that I see all over the place now about 10 or 15 miles out of some city, where the houses are all jammed together. They have the inconvenience of the longer drive to work, stores, etc and it’s just like living in the city.

Here’s another con. Coyotes. Got woke up last night around 2:30am to the screaming of a coyote fairly close to the house. It was a bright moon. One of these nights I’m going to be waiting for them with a shotgun!
 
   / pros and cons of rural living #64  
Well I reckon EVERYTHING has been covered here already sonot much to add.

We are only 18km from town and being on only 6 acres, have neighbours. Not real close (except 1) but they are there.

So while it is nice to walk in the morning with no traffic or pollution, and pee where I feel like it, and play with tractors, we also have the neighbour thing and are close to a highway so sometimes it feels like you are in the city.

Then again we are close enough to town to make it handy, but far enough away to have a bit of space. Also have town water which is a good thing too.

Just not as nice as having 2 places like Harv and some of your other guys.
 
   / pros and cons of rural living #65  
I hear ya, Danny. It really is all about compromises. Every once in a while I think that maybe the best all around solution for me and my family is to grab 5 or 10 acres right here in the East Bay. There's still some mighty nice parcels available, but they're pricey as heck. It would give me some tractorin' room, keep my kids in good schools with lots o' friends and stuff, but it wouldn't have any of that real country charm that I'm starting to like so much.
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<font color=blue>not as nice as having 2 places like Harv</font color=blue>

I dunno, Neil. Sometimes it seems like I never really get to enjoy the big property. What little time I get to spend there is all work, even though I usually enjoy that kind of work. But the running back and forth (120 miles each way) can be a real drag sometimes. /w3tcompact/icons/tongue.gif
 
   / pros and cons of rural living #66  
<font color=blue>"Sometimes it seems like I never really get to enjoy the big property."</font color=blue>

I know what you mean, Harv. A good friend of mine owns a nice little parcel on a lake about an hour and a half from here. He and his wife invited my wife and I up for a weekend. We thought it would be fun and informative as we were considering buying some property near there too.

We got up there on Friday and all we (my friend and I - the wives seemed to be able to have time to sit around and chat!/w3tcompact/icons/hmm.gif) did was work all weekend. We mowed the grass (no tractor - a walk behind!/w3tcompact/icons/sad.gif), cut fire wood, did maintenance on the building, etc., etc. By Sunday afternoon, we got about one hour's worth of fishing in. I asked my friend if this is always what happens when he comes here. He says no, usually he has to do it all himself!! /w3tcompact/icons/shocked.gif

On the way home, my wife and I decided that owning a second place probably wasn't worth the hassles!
 
   / pros and cons of rural living #67  
>> "Sometimes it seems like I never really get to enjoy the big property

>>>>We mowed the grass cut fire wood, did maintenance on the building, etc.,

Funny...thats how I ENJOY my big property!/w3tcompact/icons/smile.gif
 
   / pros and cons of rural living #68  
>>Got woke up last night around 2:30am to the screaming of a coyote fairly close to the house. It was a bright moon. One of these nights I’m going to be waiting for them with a shotgun!


One morning I heard my dog barking up a storm and the unmistakable sound of a pack of coyotes out in the back yard so I grabbed my gun and ran out to try and scare them off.

Found my dog in the middle of a pack of about 8 coyotes all chasing each other around in a "rumble". (Not sure who was chasing who)

Fired a few shots over their heads and my dog, being the smart one that he is, figures I am shooting at him and takes off with the pack of coyotes into the woods...

He came back a few hours later thoroughly exhausted from his run in the wilds, but otherwise healthy.../w3tcompact/icons/smile.gif
 
   / pros and cons of rural living #69  
ejb,

I gots to know ejb, did this "rumble" happen in Western Mass. or in the Bahamas??????? /w3tcompact/icons/wink.gif
 
   / pros and cons of rural living #70  
<font color=blue>not as nice as having 2 places like Harv and some of your other guys.</font color=blue>
Course the problem with 2 places is -- I can't get enough done at either because my time is split and so are my tools. Seems like whatever tool I need at the time is at the other place -- 3 hours away. So I make lists - schedule the work to be done and the tools required - and hope no emergency unscheduled work pops up. And ... when I'm working here - the work that needs done there - isn't getting done. I can't wait til I retire ... I've got 10 years of work waiting for me to quit working so I can get it done. and I can sell the house in town !
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