Surely the softener is after the pressure tank. T in the line, between the pressure tank, and softener, with a shut of valve there. Personally, I prefer a brass ball valve.
I use the black poly well pipe here. And to prevent rock punctures with the fragmented sand rock we have here, I run a 3/4" line through a 1-1/4" line as a conduit. We learned that lesson many years ago, after a rock punctured a line, 2 years after installing it. The second line was installed in 1967, and no problems with it yet.
If ever there is a problem with the pressurized line, whether it would split, to whatever causing a leak. Simply dig up at each end, disconnect, and pull the old line out, and shove a new one though, to reconnect. If there are some serious arcs going from point A to point B, 1-1/2" line would make it easier to push it through.
Plastic well pipe comes in different pressure strengths. I use the 160 for the pressure line, although the system is max. 50 psi. The 1-1/4" conduit has the 100 psi rating, and less expensive.
It might be tough to find the length you need at a big box store, other than in 500' rolls. I needed to make a 190' run from the well pit to the new horse barn. I finally found 200' lengths of the sizes I needed at a geothermal heat contractor, and was actually less than the price per foot at the big box stores.
Just my 2 cents.