Cost of Distribution has become significant.
Electrical Utilities used to just Get It Done here, at much lower rates. User-Pay is the buzzword that's been popular for a long time..... unfortunately, shifting the pain there enables other behaviour; shoddy management practices just being one.
Close to home (like your grandparents ur) allows you potentially to manage things yourself..... Wood is one option, if you live rural.
For Power, you'll see some examples on TBN and elsewhere of the classic path to going off-gird in remote areas..... once the line-in cost quote from the Utility shows up, all of a sudden totally off-grid starts looking better.
I recall one thread on here.... owner/builder got "irritated" with the Utility's "You can't pull that off" attitude........ "Hold my Soldering Iron, and Watch This" was his answer. Result was a fantastic off-grid system, @ or below that Line-In cost.
Big $ upfront to put that ^ in place, so not for everyone. Good suggestions/practices in this thread - I do many of the same, but not all....
Rgds, D.