TractorTYMe
Veteran Member
I've been married for almost 24 years (1st one still), I cannot give much advice on losing a spouse (Hope we still get many years together), but as always I'd follow the many who have advised to take time to grieve, IS ok. It is also ok to try to be happy as you get done working over things. Key is to stay active, keep the mind and body as fresh as conditions permit. Then figure out the material things in life later, one thing is fer sure! We don't get to take that with us when time is there.