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That's true enough... I would apply that to in person deals too. There are a lot of people whose eyes are bigger than their wallets. If you ever sell a used car you run into this all the time. They want to buy the car but they go to the bank and they find out they have no money (how could they not know this ahead of time?) or they try to get financing or borrow the money and can't.
I would never hold an item without a deposit myself, unless it was for a good friend. Even then not for very long. Something unexpected could easily happen to derail the deal even if they fully intended to go through with it. Even with the deposit I would have an agreement in writing about how long they have to come up with the rest of the dough.
That's true enough... I would apply that to in person deals too. There are a lot of people whose eyes are bigger than their wallets. If you ever sell a used car you run into this all the time. They want to buy the car but they go to the bank and they find out they have no money (how could they not know this ahead of time?) or they try to get financing or borrow the money and can't.
I would never hold an item without a deposit myself, unless it was for a good friend. Even then not for very long. Something unexpected could easily happen to derail the deal even if they fully intended to go through with it. Even with the deposit I would have an agreement in writing about how long they have to come up with the rest of the dough.