Conventional systems fail all the time. . .
So do mechanical systems.
A conventional/anaerobic system just by design produces methane gas because it is anaerobic. An aerobic system does not produce methane gas.
There still will be solids in the aerobic, it is just that instead of pumping every 3 years, you can extend that to 6 years and have a more efficient system. Out here it costs $650 to pump a 1,500 gallon tank. I would rather spend the $60 a year on power and extend the pumping interval.
I don't mean to beat a dead horse, and it sounds like you have made up your mind. I understand your concerns and your desire to scrutinize the details. I'm a detail guy myself. I probably over-analyze everything. (at least that's what my wife says

) But, you're skipping over a couple of very important basic facts here:
1. Your location was approved for a "conventional" system. (ie: septic tank and field line) Millions of these have been installed over the last 100 or so years and
MOST of them work, without issue, for years - even decades. BTW, my 1000 gallon septic tank has been in contiuous use for 20+ years without
ANY problems, failures, backups, etc. All without
ANY service, maintenance, or adding any "magic" bacteria.

In fact, my septic tank has never been pumped. *NOTE: But, as I stated earlier, we don't abuse our septic system. We don't dump dirty mop water down the drain. We don't clean our plumbing fixtures with bleach. (yes, there are people who do this) We don't have a garbage disposal. (garbage goes in the garbage, not the septic tank) Etc, etc, etc.
2. The other thing, that you seem to be insistent on, is making a conventional system aerobic, by adding on after-market gizmos. I would be curious to know what your state sanitarian (that's the title here in LA) thinks about all that stuff. Septic systems, and thier various components, must undergo years of testing and trials, demonstrating that they actually work, before they are approved.
IF these gadgets were so great, your state health department would have recommended them. But, they didn't. They issued you a permit for a conventional system.
You are anticipating all of these problems with a conventional septic tank, even before you have it installed. Just relax. It'll be OK. :thumbsup: