This is a really tough question since different people have different views of what 'extreme' means.
I readily admit that I am particularly brutal on my equipment... but I also take good care of it - fluids/filters/grease are all kept up, probably more often than necessary. If anything does break, I fix it with new parts, under warranty if possible, and by the 'pros' at the dealership regardless.
The TC55 has held up well since I bought it new, with the following 'issues':
I've blown and replaced two sets of front ring&pinion gears in the first year, and then put an entire new front differential on it, all done under warranty. This wear was due to extreme FEL use without maintaining appropriate rear counterweights. Once I added more rear ballast (400lbs wheel weights) on top of CaCl-filled rears from day one, I don't seem to have any more issues with the front end (but discovered the next weak link - see below).
I fried the PTO clutch after installing 500+ fence posts with a PHD over a period of 3-4 days. We were moving pretty good, and I was very hard on the PTO to get that done. The clutch was replaced under warranty and I baby the thing a lot more since then. Sometimes you just have to go slow, or get bigger equipment. No matter... I have a new PTO clutch today.
I've replaced one FEL bucket curl cylinder that blew. It could have been rebuilt, but was replaced under warranty.
I've had the steering connecting rod straightened 3 or 4 times after driving over boulders during some spirited sessions in the mud. This is not really a major issue.
I've had to replace both lift links for my bucket due to bending from carrying too heavy a load. This was after I installed the rear wheel weights, so this is the obvious weak link in the design, and an intelligent one, since the lift links are only around $100 for the set of four pieces.
Tires have been punctured several times; tubes were installed and they've been replaced a few times. I have one tire (a rear) that has never seen a puncture).
I replaced a complete rear fender (not under warranty) after wrapping a chain drag around a rear wheel... that was a scary experience.
The heavy-duty Bradco Grapple bucket has a very slight bend in the bucket from too heavy a load, but it doesn't affect it's use in any way.
I've caught a backhoe line or two in between rocks, and simply replaced them. The hoe has been used well and shows no signs of wear or reduced capacity.
The backhoe frame connecting pins and frame connections take a lot of abuse, mainly because they reduce your ground clearance and I used to have a lot of boulders around here. I've had them bend so much I had to pound the pins in and out attach or remove the hoe. I replaced the connectors and one of the pins with new parts and all is well.
After a little more than two years and nearly 500 hours, the TC 55 still looks great and runs like a top. Everything that failed has been replaced with new parts (except the steering rod which was just straightened with a shop press and put back to use). If I were to wash/wax it and replace the worn tires, you would have a tough time telling it from new.
I bought it to use it; which I have done. I estimate it has paid for itself at least twice over, and possible three times in the past 2 years, if I were to have rented equipment or contracted someone to do the work I have done.