I am not 100% sure I am able to visualize the lots.
if ti is not too much trouble could you possible sketch something out in Paintshop and save it as a .jpg file and post it.
What I'm not clear about is that you have a different 20ft strip that can et you out to the road that neighbor A is growing grapes on? Is that correct?
Currently the existig road all 3 of you have an easement to cross the property of the others. In hindsight before I would have boughten that gravel for "my" portion of the road that you bought a few years back, you could have had this discussion at that time. You didn't ask and nobody contributed to that part you repaired.
Do you think things would work out better if you asked neighbors C & A to a face to face meting with your lawyer in his/her office. That might be better than a letter from the attorney. A meeting with the lawyer might be just what is needed to get everybody talking with each other. And the only way this is going to work out even half way decent is if you are all able to talk about it, together.
Perhaps your approach can be, the surveyor finished so with this latest information can we all get together and work out a plan that is good for everybody?
We are fortunate, we just had lunch today at our hosue with 2 of our neighbors. A coupel weeks ago we had a different neighbor over for dinner. We own a parcel fo land maybe a couple acres that is not attached to our main property. It was these neighbors we had over for lunch. After lunch they ask us to walk back with them to their house, they want to show us some property we own that we didn't know about. Turns out we own a little patch of land that the neighbor has been using for parking. That was really nice, if he wouldn't have done that we would never have known about it.
We have made an effort to be on a first name basis with our neighbors and be friendly, but not "in their business."
We do have one neighbor who is a PIA but even him we manage to get along with okay. Do you think it is possible to turn this guy? Instead of being advisarial is there any hope as Eddie Walker said to kill them with kindness.
It is a long hard road when neighbors become adversaries. I would even suggest that after the survey that you invite A & B to lunch in town first then see your lawyer after lunch.
You jsut don't know, neighbor A may not have the $$ to fix the road. What may seem like an ordinary expense to you might be an extraordiany expense to him. All right he's an xxhole, but look Eddie Walker managed to get a diverse group together and get it done amicably. You owe it to yourself to at least try the carrot before you pull out the stick.
You sound very very very reasonable adn I cna't fault your approaches thus far, far from it. Can you go one step further?