Well, I went out in the rain for the last bit of plowing, crossing my fingers that the plow would take it (clay in the rain is a mess) and it did, like a champ.

Very happy with the results. It does look like the beam slipped a tiny bit on the 3pt (not sure how to explain it, I'll post it up here with pictures and some pictures of my "repair" when it stops raining) which I assume is because I'm putting more force on the plow and it moved a little bit. Might have to weld that too if the bolts are as tight as they can be.
That was where I was, if I broke it, so be it, I need a new plow. If I didn't break it, I was going to buy a new plow. So, as long as it doesn't break the tractor, or cause the tractor to flip and kill me, I'm not risking a whole lot here.
I guess my question really; yes, I'm running a single bottom on a big tractor. But, when I look at the EA 2 bottom plow, it looks like it has the same shear pin setup, so, I can't see any reason I'd have more luck with that, just break twice as many pins per hr on the tractor. So, who does this kind of setup work for? Sure, I guess if your running in an established field, no rocks, no roots, yeah, it would work fine, but, how many people are running single bottom plows in farm fields? I'd think that a huge percentage on these are sold for people breaking ground for a garden or something like that in virgin soil. And virgin soil is tough, has rocks/roots and is hard to break. So, then I started thinking, maybe it's made for a smaller tractor; which, of course, it is. But, honestly, the pin let go so fast on my tractor, I'd think that even a tractor 1/2 the weight and HP, you'd have to be really careful; it would break it pretty fast too (or at least, I'd think so).
IMHO, this is a case of lawyers getting in the way of sensible design, sure, the plow shouldn't flip your tractor over, but it also shouldn't break a pin when you let it get a sniff of the soil either. But, if you ran this on a small tractor (as it's designed for), and if it was a solid shank, yeah, you probably could really flip the tractor over if you hit something good. And to prevent that, I think EA puts a shear pin that's breaking at "10HP of pull" which someone calculated is the flip force for a subcompact tractor; nothing at all to do with "what will the steel take before it lets go". Anyway, that's my theory, and I'm sticking to it.