Pole barns are totally different then fences. The roof and walls protect them quite a bit, so your main concern is the part of the post that is on the exterior wall. Make sure you have good drainage and there isn't any standing water!!!!
As for concrete, it's really one of those either or options. Pole barns are self standing, you are not rellying on the pole to hold the building up. The purlins, siding and roof all combine to hold it together. Just like table standing on it's own. The poles anchor it in place and add considerable strength, but if built properly, and the weather was always perfect, without any wind, then the building would stand just fine without the poles in the ground.
The advantage to a pole barn is that those poles in the ground make it easier and faster to build because you don't have to deal with a foundation, or anchoring the building to that foundation.
The friction from compacting the post with dirt is plenty for any pole barn. Concete on a pole barn post to me is over kill and not needed in most cases. Since you are in FL, hurricanes are going to dictate what you need and how deep you need to go. But I bet you will lose a roof long before your poles come out of the ground no matter how you anchor them.
Everything I've read suggests that you want to keep the ends of your poles off of the soil. Loose gravel at the bottom of the hole or a concrete cookie is supposed to accmoplish this. I have my doubts becasue to me, that creates a place for water to go and remain. Water is the enemy. The dryer the better.
I've pulled and replaced quite a few wood posts and I have never seen one rotten fron the end. I think that the theory is fine, but in the real world, it's just an extra expense that doesn't accomplish anything. Stick the treated post in the ground, pack it with clay and keep it dry. You will be long dead before that post ever needs to be replaced!!!!
Eddie