+1 on dmccarty's comments.
Frankly, I think that if you have doubts about Starlink, just don't sign up. Just because someone else is wearing long side burns / wide ties / glasses / skinny jeans / New Balance 407s / ... doesn't mean you have to. Sit it out, let other thrash through whatever teething issues there are, and learn from their collective experience. I don't think that there is "right" answer for everyone. "Different strokes for different folks." This isn't a fine art auction where there is only one up for sale. Wait and see is perfectly valid.
Do I think universal fiber hookup is preferable to satellites? I do. Locally, is fiber ever making it the last six miles to us? Doubtful. None of our local providers are willing to even quote running fiber, and the recent FCC rural broadband grants went only to microwave in our area, rather than fiber, and on top of that, the auction specifically left out our property. So...yes, "Icicle's chance in Hades" comes to mind. Do I think that there is the political will in D.C. these days to do rural fiber for the whole country, like the thirties rural electrification? "Icicle's chance in Hades" comes to mind again. I would love to be wrong on that.
So, locally, for just us, in the foreseeable future we have the choice between DSL, or satellite providers, and with Covid the non-Starlink satellite companies don't have bandwidth for us. So, our choice is 1940s copper telephone lines or Starlink. Well, we could get a microwave tower permitted and built, but that is a $40,000 proposition for $400/mo service, at 50-100Mbit speeds, and no guarantee we could get the permits... not exactly something that obviously pencils out. Nor is it obvious that it adds to the resale value.
Will we consider Kuiper (Amazon), if and when it, arrives? Sure! If the cost is low enough, we might even run both for reliability reasons.
If someone else launches a service? Sure!
If cell service with wireless internet makes it out here? Sure!
To my mind, a bit is a bit and service lives or dies by bandwidth and reliability. Locally, we have terrible power quality, so satellite service has bonus points for us because it will stay up during power outages if we can supply local power, which we can. Our DSL and phone line lasts at most 8-10 hours (up from an hour, after I complained to the public utility commission and pointed out that the phone company wasn't meeting their contracted service level commitment), and when our internet goes, so does our cell service. Again, this is a very local decision, and "different strokes for different folks".
All the best,
Peter