Richard,
I have always enjoyed reading your posts because I trust what you say is true. I believe that you have worked hard and deserve everything you earn. Being a doctor, much less becoming one, requires a tremendous amount of dedication and self-sacrifice.
My wife is self-employed, and she busts her butt everyday to manage her business despite being taxed to the point of being unfair. Some of the people she hires will work for a short time and then try to collect workers comp., or hope to get fired so they can claim unemployment.
I work hard too. I know...teaching is easy, and on top of that we are grossly overpaid (if you listen to the people in our community). But I work harder than many of the students I am trying to teach, and in some cases, harder than the moms and dads who want me to do even more of the custodial duties (counsel them, feed them, coach them, babysit them, discipline them - but don't touch them) that only the parents should do.
But you, my wife and I have got it made. We have reaped the benefits of our education and our work ethic. Although we may not be rich, we make a comfortable living (heck, we've got our own tractor).
But my father has busted his butt for the past 32 years in a garage building military tanks, and there is no end in sight if he wants to maintain his current style of life. My brother, who is divorced, will never be able to afford his own home unless he marries again, yet he works as much overtime as he can get.
Do I resent the lazy and the dishonest who steal from the system? Of course.
Do I wish that I wasn't taxed as much? Of course.
Do I think that everyone who is on welfare or struggles to make ends meet is a product of their own laziness, and therefore undeserving of help - I do not.
I feel this way primarily because we don't live in a vacuum, and our social system leaves a lot to be desired.
I guess that if I were paid what I think teachers are worth (about $1.1 million per year), I'd be willing to forego the $20,000, so that my father, or brother, or the rest of those who struggle to make ends meet, could do just that.