Choosing a tractor is a highly personal decision. Even though it's a "work tool", there are all kinds of subjective judgments behind someone deciding what they like and don't like. Even the sincere advice you can find here is colored by the perspective of who is giving it, and it's a sure thing that someone equally sincere will hold a differing view. The good news is that the tractor business is very competitive and nobody selling junk, so you have little chance of getting a lemon.
I'd suggest you do some tire kicking to get an idea of what brands and dealers are near you, and then, before you do any true shopping, go home and think out what specific things are going to be important for you. For example, if you plan to mow or have boggy ground, you probably don't want a main battle tank of a tractor and you'd want something with a lighter footprint. Or you might have plans for some extensive tillage work where a heavier tractor will give you more pulling power.
Comments: a) Your haying plans will drive you to a larger tractor to drive the equipment and have enough weight... few if any modern 30-40 hp tractors are well suited to that kind of work. b) The backhoe is a large expense and only worth it if you have recurring need for it. A few one-time chores can be more cheaply handled by a rental when needed.
This probably wasn't exactly what you were asking for but I hope it's helpful. Good luck with your shopping!
I'd suggest you do some tire kicking to get an idea of what brands and dealers are near you, and then, before you do any true shopping, go home and think out what specific things are going to be important for you. For example, if you plan to mow or have boggy ground, you probably don't want a main battle tank of a tractor and you'd want something with a lighter footprint. Or you might have plans for some extensive tillage work where a heavier tractor will give you more pulling power.
Comments: a) Your haying plans will drive you to a larger tractor to drive the equipment and have enough weight... few if any modern 30-40 hp tractors are well suited to that kind of work. b) The backhoe is a large expense and only worth it if you have recurring need for it. A few one-time chores can be more cheaply handled by a rental when needed.
This probably wasn't exactly what you were asking for but I hope it's helpful. Good luck with your shopping!