I have wired a lot of our aux lighting like the attached. We mount the relay close to the lights, run the power directly to the battery through a fuse. Then control the ground side of the relay with small 22 awg wire. Also leaves short run for power. This way we only have to run small single wire into or up to the cab, use small switch and find our ground. Now if you have to have things only work with ignition on going to get tricky. :confused2: here is link to sealed relay and connector
Hella 7794307 20/40A Skirted Mini Relay w/ Mounting Bracket ISO MINI WEATHERPROOF RELAY CONNECTOR WITH 12" LEADS - 75610 <img src="http://www.tractorbynet.com/forums/files/customization/404946-want-add-aux-fuse-box-relay-ground-act-jpg"/>