The relay (SBA385230220) referenced in the OP's question does not carry starting motor current. SBA385230220 is commonly referred to as a safety start or neutral start relay. The NO contacts of this relay is in series with the ignition switch which energizes the starter solenoid. The coil of SBA385230220 is energized by limit switches which must all be closed in order for the starter to operate, i.e. clutch pedal & pto's, etc..
A standard Bosch type automotive relay is adequate for this application and has been in place and working as a replacement on my 1520 for about 5 years now. Due to the different terminal configuration I also changed the relay's socket. The SBA385230220 terminals are labeled so I just moved the two wires that were connected to the terminals labeled 'COIL' to my replacement relay terminals 85 & 86, and moved the wire on 'COM' to 30, and 'NO' to 87. I did not cut, splice, or change the oe spade connectors on any of the wires.